PLEASE HELP...I NEED ADVICE!! is this working in the wrong way??

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Comment by Heather Dillon on December 1, 2009 at 11:39am

actually that was a fear that I had a while ago. I need techniques on how to keep negative thoughts like that out so that they don't become my reality...

Comment by HappierThanGod on December 1, 2009 at 1:37am

I do not know where this thread about bad things happening first before good manifestations come sprung...but please cancel that from your thoughts. You are a great in manifesting! However, you have to remember that not all of your "wants" would happen real quick. The results of what happened today maybe results of what you have been thinking and feeling last week or maybe a month or a year earlier. Were you thinking that you would lose your boyfriend some time ago, and, apply this to the other recent events in your recent reality.

Comment by Terry on November 30, 2009 at 7:42pm

ohhhh - I don't think you could possibly monitor all of your thoughts ... egads - that would be mind boggling. lol Instead, pay attention to how you are feeling. If you are feeling generally happy and positive, then the thoughts floating through your mind would be in that realm. If you find yourself feeling uneasy, angry, unsure, upset .. then recognize it and intentionally say to yourself ... 'hey, I prefer to feel happy so I'm going to think a happy thought right now instead", and intentionally bring up a thought, vision, experience that will make you smile. In Abraham-hicks talk it is called pivoting .. and it works quite well. And don't beat yourself up if you find yourself dwelling on something negative ... the idea is to catch it more and more, pivot more and more, and pretty soon it will become second nature. Everyone has doubts, Everyone has negative thoughts. The fact that you are aware of it means you are already on the right track and just need to practice it more. Sounds like you are doing pretty darn good!!! Also, you may try keeping a journal of your visions/feelings and manifestations. It's concrete evidence of how well you are doing. And sometimes when you go back and read them, you find patterns or notice things that you didn't catch earlier.

Comment by Heather Dillon on November 30, 2009 at 7:08pm

Thanks for the comments everyone! It actually helps a lot. I agree that I think I know what the out come is going to be but the problem is that I always catch myself doubting my visions. If anyone has any advice on how to keep it positive that would help too. I try to stop every negative thought and re-place it with a positive one. But sometimes there is this battle of thoughts in my mind. Does anyone else have this a lot. I am trying to figure out how to keep the doubts out of my mind. . I just need encouragement from othere people that are on my same wave length. Thanks again!!!!


Heather Amber

Comment by Terry on November 30, 2009 at 2:08pm

There is no such thing as coincidence. Everything that we experience is of our creation. You are doing a FABULOUS job. So, think happy, positive thoughts. Focus on pleasant experiences you would like to have or do. I'm reminded of a quote ..."our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." (sorry, can't remember who said it). Your manifesting power is being shown quite clearly to you. Revel in it. Appreciate it. As Steve M commented, perhaps having a general intention each day would resonate well for you.
I have three "intentions" I state each day. Today I intend.... 1) ....to see only those things that I want to see; 2) ....Safety, Harmony, Excellent Health and Prosperity; .....Spiritual growth and consciousness.

Whatever you decide to focus on, visualize, or imagine, just know that you are the creator. Isn't that just so cool?

Comment by Steve M. on November 30, 2009 at 1:09pm

Just a personal opinion, but I don't believe in coincidences at all. Certainly you appear to be more "in tune" then most people I know. While you are in this state, why not focus on only growth positive things and use those out comes as your barometer. You are very blessed indeed. I would not focus on people not coming after you, instead you may have an intention like, "I am physically and mentally save as I go throughout my day". Something like that. Remember you get what you focus on, (good or bad). Don't worry and be safe!!!

Comment by Kem Kem on November 30, 2009 at 1:04pm

Sounds like you are manifesting all that you want. WHo knows, maybe the distance will make your boyfriend miss and appreciate you more, and maybe your Dad being away will make him realize the errors of his ways. I think deep down inside you know what is going on. Just keep it going ok :-)