Its already happened...... Can you describe it for me?

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Permalink Reply by Jilly on November 20, 2009 at 3:33pm

giggle YOU got it !

We are on the same PAGE !

Something you said though caught my eye...
Chris Quote:or that if I don't hold onto them then I won't have them when I need them.
One might say that when you do need them, they will then come to you. WE dont need to become a storage house for all the stuff we think we might need in the future. Remember, the Law of Attraction rules and regulations...The universe will provide in abundance your every need. If this policy of hanging on to stuff just in case were the law, OMGosh!
Regarding GIVE: BAM! YOU said it. I used to be in a place that if I were to let go of something of real monitary value, I would list it in the paper and sell it to the highest bidder and in doing so the money in my pocket was my wealth and happiness. There is something to be said about the phrase "The JOY of GIVING". I am now in a happier place in this Universe. Its a place of giving...JUST GIVING it away. The GIVEing that comes with being happy to give and letting go. This is so amazing. Heck, I even give away stuff that I'm using right now. What is so amazing about this type of giving is...I usually go a few days making do without and bam...a better model hairdryer appears. For a long time my husband would shake his head at me...and would also be amazed. My mother had a saying about me. "Jilly can fall in shXX and come out smelling like a ROSE"...now I know what she was saying. Hence the old adage..."Giving the Shirt off your Back".
So let me join you my new wonderful friend CHRIS. I have a beautiful pedestal OAK Dining room TABLE to give away.
Many Blessings to you and all the co-creators reading this...Love JILLY

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Permalink Reply by Jilly on November 20, 2009 at 5:58pm

On reply 2 of 1...lol
I just had to come back and comment once again and get your input.
Someone commented on our lil discussion here and mentioned that they are going to make some changes now after reading.
Which brings me to that hugh road block called CHANGE.
When we are asked to step out of our box, or our comfort zone to make such changes in our thinking and actions...that creap called EGO slips in. Their are many that have a hard time with CHANGE. I have seen it in the workplace many times when a new boss comes in, with new ideas. Or when one gets married and realizes that both don't do things the same way. I sleep on the left side of the bed and so does he...so now what?...giggle.
When we all start to make changes and needed compromises we feel the shift. I see compromise here as a giving thing. The old give and take additude to make everyone happy in a situation. There we go again with the Happy word. Its all linked. But we must talk about LOVE while we are at it.
So Chris...wanna talk about that for a minute?..YOU First....lol...JILLY

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Permalink Reply by Chris on November 20, 2009 at 10:14pm

Love... well I guess the most important thing to start with when talking about love is the difference between the high vibration love and ego love. Ego love has an attachment to it that also holds the fear of loss or even lack of having which is the same lack we were talking about when we feel the need to hold on to something material.

So with that said I would say that love, joy and happiness are all tied so closely to change. I like to think about it in the terms of vibrations. It is said that these feelings are all high vibrational feelings and with high vibrations we are given more and more change. I maintain that the reason depression and the bad feelings can be so "comforting" is because they are at so low a vibration that nothing changes. And when nothing changes we don't feel the need to "worry" about things because there is nothing new however we are feeling bad.

Now when we feel good it may feel a little uncomfortable because we are consistently pressing up against constant change which is really just constant creation through higher vibrations. The key to the love vibration is that is allows for constant acceptance of what is, which is very helpful when we are having trouble with the constant change that we are now experiencing. I think that we are coming to a head where change is going to be inevitable and love will be a key emotion for us to feel in order to keep up with our expanding universe.

There was one technique I try every once in a while that shows the INCREDIBLE power of the feeling of love. Throughout an entire day, ever person you meet, you send them your love. Bring up the feeling of love in yourself and send it to others. You'll be amazed at how everyone reacts to you and what kind of love will be sent back to you.

All we are is love, just like all we are is happiness. There is no escaping this and despite the change it invokes it's fairly easy to just live in this feeling. And if you ever feel like you are having trouble invoking these feelings just remember that thoughts become things and you can always ask the universe for help with the evoking. Allow for anything to be and you will be happy.

Wow I'm tired. I'm not even sure this is making sense but I hope it is. I'll check back tomorrow to make sure I'm making a point. :-)

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Permalink Reply by createfate on November 20, 2009 at 10:53pm

I am going to try the "love experiment" tomorrow !!!

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Permalink Reply by Jilly on November 20, 2009 at 11:51pm

Chris, dang get some sleep. I had to read this a few times to get what you were saying. I am reading a bit between the lines here.
I will start with LOVE...Where does it come from?
Love comes from the Source/Universe/God.
So how do we recieve this Love? The only option I see is thru the connection to the source. So it would stand to reason that when you are not connected to the source the Love is squelched. It would also be reasonable to say that in Unity there is Love.
The Law of Attractions lesson is that we are all connected/all one with the Universe. So when you love someone as yourself, you bring about a connecting between that person you love and the universe. In this process you might say that Love is a cause and effect. Spreading the Love as it were. The main objective would be to love everyone. There are many arguments. Let me be clear, you dont have to like what a person does with there life. You just need to love them. This is where we all need to avoid that one called ego. We are spirit/sole not flesh. The flesh is an illusion....just that good old dimension we happen to be in at the moment. So if we are spirit and spirit is love that would mean that we are love. I think living in love brings about that happiness and other good feelings you talk about. About the change you talk of. Yes I believe that some of us need to make a change regarding loving one another.
This bring me to what you said about loving coming back to you.
Some feel that they only need to love the nearest and dearest people in their lives such as relatives and close friends. I think...oh boy, did I say that. Well ok I do think that when we dont love everyone...that which we single out not to love is a mirror. When we dont love that one person, that non love mirrors back to us. This is a concept that I had to accept. This was hugh for me to accept. I am in the process of acceptance. In the process of loving everyone. Yes Chris, it is an incredible power to give. It just amazes me how easy it is to give love to those close to you and in contrast how hard it is to give love to those that are not.
You said that This was a technique that you tried "every once in a while". It really needs to be a regular practice. Here we go again accepting CHANGE.
Sending much Love...JILLY

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Permalink Reply by Chris on November 23, 2009 at 11:56am

I needed to take a break this weekend and make my place a cleaner and more energetic environment and I'm glad to say that I succeeded in a lot of that along with getting a big bag of clothes to give away. In my opinion you are right on and I can thankfully say that I have had problems loving everyone but it has been getting better lately for a few reasons.

I think my first step to loving others was realizing that all anyone can ever do is their best with what they know. That and I truly believe that since everyone is a reflection of myself then I have been where everyone is in their life and to help and heal them I just need to forgive myself for bringing that into my life. And of course forgiveness is a whole other topic that we can get into if wanted/needed.

As a final note I just ran across this beautiful person and her beautiful story about her 29 days of giving. Seeing as how we are doing a 100 day thing and on Friday I'm starting a 30 day thing this seems to fit perfectly in with this theme. Check it out at http://www.29gifts.org/

Permalink Reply by createfate on November 20, 2009 at 9:36pm

Had to say here Jilly...Excellent work... I agree with the conditioning the closet thing...wow, read my next response to THAT!!!

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Permalink Reply by Theresa Laura Morgan on November 20, 2009 at 12:54pm

Everyone's comments are very helpful. I do agree alot what Chris was saying about trying to manifest millions of dollars when you might think that money doesn't come easily. I'm going to challenge myself and act as if what I want to manifest has already happened. I ask for everyone to send their positive energy for me :) Thank you everyone!

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Permalink Reply by Chris on November 20, 2009 at 3:08pm

I just sent you some serious Reiki to help you maintain the belief of happiness.

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Permalink Reply by Jilly on November 20, 2009 at 3:09pm

I recommend you continue to follow this discussion as I just responded to chris and he to me again. Hugs JILLY

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Permalink Reply by Anamaria M. on November 20, 2009 at 5:39pm

WOW!!!

Loved reading your replies, so very inspiring!

I will have to align myself with that and put my energy into seeing things as if they have already happened, I usually have a hard time going against my beliefs, imagining something different and actually accepting that it is possible, I just run into a wall. Which is why I will be trying harder.:)

Thank you for your beautiful replies, I really enjoyed reading this discussion and the original question was very interesting.

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Permalink Reply by Jilly on November 20, 2009 at 5:48pm

Hi Anamaria, I am so glad that this inspired you. CHANGE can be hard to do for many. We all like to sail along in our own comfort zone don't we? The minute we are asked to step out of our box our ego gets in the way. Keep reading as I believe this discussion will be continued for a while. Blessing to you, Jilly

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